February 10, 2012 
         

Bring Both Spouses to the Table



Brian H. Ashe, CLU
Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Reading through the sports pages of the Chicago Tribune recently, I unexpectedly came across an article that provides a powerful lesson for MDRT members. 

 

It highlighted Taylor Lawless, a gifted high school basketball player who will miss her senior season due – in large part – to the fact that her father did not have an adequate amount of life insurance.  His unexpected death at only 44 years of age left the family without the funds needed to purchase health insurance.

 

So, when Taylor was injured last summer, they could not afford the knee surgery she needed, which would have allowed her to participate in the upcoming season.

 

According to the article, Mrs. Lawless had no idea the family’s insurance plans were so inadequate.  She found out too late that their agent had recommended additional coverage to Mr. Lawless.

 

Thanks to government assistance, Taylor has now had surgery and will be able to play basketball next year at the collegiate level.  Unfortunately, she’ll never replace the memories she would have created during her final high school season.

 

What can we do to ensure that both spouses are more actively involved in important life insurance and financial planning discussions?  Does anyone have a technique or approach that works particularly well?


READER COMMENTS
R.Stephen, Development Officer, LIC of India
Monday, February 12, 2007

Thanks a lot for the email id. I'll be in touch with you soon and always. I'm in need of your guidance in so many ways.
Bye for now.

Yours affectionately,
Stephen


READER COMMENTS
brian ashe
Wednesday, February 7, 2007

Stephen: You can reach me at bashe29843@aol.com.

READER COMMENTS
Stephen Ilango.R.
Monday, February 5, 2007

Dear Brian Ashe,
Thank you very much for your appreciation.

I am in need of your guidance to me in making a team of Life Insurance consultants to get qualified for MDRT.

I have organised a team of 33 Insurance consultants and conducting training for them in our regional language(Tamil).

The 1st session went on well on the 30th of last month and we've fixed the 2nd session on the 27th of this month. I hope that we will be able to make many of them get qualified to MDRT.

Can I have your e-mail id...so that being an experienced Insurance advisor, we can get your guidance.

My e-mail id is stephenilango@yahoo.com.

Thank you very much.


READER COMMENTS
Brian Ashe
Thursday, February 1, 2007

Stephen: I am glad you shared your story. We, in the life insurance business, need to do more "story telling" instead of always concentrating on the "numbers" side of the business. Things that happen in real life to real people always have more impact.

READER COMMENTS
R.Stephen, Development Officer, LIC of India
Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Yes. I also endorse what Ravikumar has said.
The Insurance policy is mostly taken to provide security for the wife and kids, but many a times no is given by the head of the family without the knowledge of his wife. In many cases the wives say no as they didn't understand the importance of Insurance as they were not included in the discussions. For them their today's needs are important and suggests their husbands not to go in for Insurance. Who can oppose the order of the wife? Even the decision made by the husband to buy insurance is now postponed.

There is a saying I read 10 years back 'Wife may object Insurance, but widow won't.

So if we make both spouses sit together while we discuss Insurance plans for their family the awareness will be more and the success ratio of our Insurance sales personnel will also increase.


READER COMMENTS
R.Stephen Ilango
Tuesday, January 30, 2007

When I read the incident of the girl who lost her father at the age of 44....My thoughts ran back to the year 1984 when my father also passed away when I was in college at the age of 44.

He also failed to take out an Insurance Policy and the family suffered a lot and as the eldest son of the family I was to discontinue my studies and suffered a lot in life for about 10 years. By the guidance of the Lord Almighty I could get through the competitive Exam for Development Officer(recruiting and training the agents) and joined Life Insurance Corporation of India.

Exactly a month after my father's death another person who was also my father's friend passed away, he was also 44, but his father took a LIC Policy wisely (he took it just a month earlier). I discontinued my college and he could continue his studies and straightaway well settled in life without any hardship financially.

I share my own story whenever I can talk to someone. This personal experince makes me love the Life Insurance profession and I took it as a commitment and make all my Insurance advisors work with more commitment and dedication.


READER COMMENTS
Ravikumar
Monday, January 15, 2007

Yes, the first thing we need to give the prospect is the reason why we are there, and what we plan to do for his family.
Once this is established we have to insist that a copy of the proposal that we are giving should be jointly signed by both husband and wife.
It may not be always that one of them will agree to it, as many a 'no' decision is taken into without the spouse knowing about it.
And we also can go one step further by telling him/ or her, that is imperative that in case one of them is no more the other should be aware of the terms and condition of the plan.
We can also impress upon them that an insurance agent is also no god and that in case we are not there, the spouse is informed what has been signed in and then look out for an advisor if need be.




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